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Writer's pictureCarlos Duncan

Struggling to Lose Weight? Here’s How Lack of Consistency is Holding You Back

Updated: Nov 4




Let’s be real: weight loss can feel like a cruel joke sometimes. You’re drinking green smoothies that taste suspiciously like lawn clippings, you’re sweating through workouts, and yet… the scale has decided it’s on strike. Before you blame your metabolism or consider a return to pizza therapy, let’s talk about a little thing called consistency—because, as it turns out, consistency (or lack thereof) is the not-so-secret ingredient most of us need for lasting results.


1. The Magic of Consistency: More Than Just a Buzzword

It’s easy to think of consistency as something motivational Instagram accounts love to throw around. But honestly, consistency is the unsung hero of health and fitness. Why? Because progress doesn’t happen in a single workout, or even in a week. It happens through repeat effort—showing up again and again, even when you’d rather binge-watch your favorite show.

When we talk about consistency, we’re not saying you have to live in the gym or eat like a rabbit every single day. But we are saying that if you work out a few times, then go MIA for a month, you can’t expect miracles. Think of it like brushing your teeth: skipping a day won’t hurt, but skipping a few weeks? Not exactly a recipe for pearly whites.


2. The Scale Hates Weekend Binges (And So Does Your Body)

Here’s a harsh truth: if you’re only “healthy” Monday through Thursday, your results may be stuck in limbo. It’s all too easy to fall into the trap of the weekend binge cycle—whether that’s indulging in bottomless brunch, going wild on a Friday night, or simply lounging around because, hey, you “earned it.” But those 2-3 days can really set back the progress you made earlier in the week.

Your body doesn’t operate on a weekly calendar. It’s not thinking, “Hey, it’s Friday! I’m going to take the weekend off from storing those extra calories.” No, those extra splurges can quickly add up, leading to what we’ll call the Weekend Weight Loss Limbo. This doesn’t mean you have to miss out on fun, but it does mean striking a balance.


3. Exercise as a “Non-Negotiable” (Most of the Time)

Here’s where consistency can be sneaky. You might think you’re doing “enough” exercise because you work out… sometimes. Or whenever you feel like it. But your body thrives on routine, and that means making exercise part of your life, just like brushing your teeth or texting your best friend every time you spot a cute dog.

When it comes to fitness, the best workout is the one you actually do—and, even better, the one you do often. It doesn’t have to be every day, but if your schedule looks like “Monday: Cardio, Tuesday: Rest, Wednesday: Cardio, Thursday: Didn’t feel like it, Friday: Happy hour…” you’re not exactly giving yourself the best chance to progress. Imagine the results you’d get if you committed to just three solid workouts a week, no excuses.


4. The 80/20 Rule: Because Life Should Include Ice Cream

Consistency doesn’t mean perfection, and it certainly doesn’t mean eating boiled chicken and steamed veggies at every meal. (Because… no.) The key is finding a healthy balance—one that fits into your life and lets you enjoy it.

The 80/20 rule is a simple approach: 80% of the time, you’re eating well, sticking to whole foods, and fueling your body. The other 20%? That’s for the pizza, the glass of wine, and the occasional dessert. This isn’t just good for your mental sanity—it’s a more sustainable way to eat that keeps you from falling into the all-or-nothing trap. And guess what? If you’re following the 80/20 rule consistently, you’ll still see progress without feeling deprived.


5. Consistency Adds Up Over Time (Even When It Feels Like Nothing’s Happening)

We all want results yesterday, but here’s the thing: weight loss is like planting a tree. You won’t see instant results, but every day you water it, every bit of sunlight it gets, it grows—often slowly, and sometimes without you even noticing. Then one day, boom, you’ve got a tree (or in this case, results that you’re really proud of).

Consistency is about patience and faith in the process. Just because you’re not seeing big changes right away doesn’t mean nothing’s happening. Your body is adapting, building strength, learning to use energy more efficiently, and developing healthier habits. This slow burn is what creates the long-term transformation you’re looking for.


6. How to Build Consistency Without Losing Your Mind

So, how do you stay consistent without feeling like you’re stuck in a fitness hamster wheel? Here are a few strategies:

  • Make It Manageable: Set goals that fit your life. If you’re only able to commit to 30-minute workouts three times a week, start there. Don’t feel like you have to leap into a 7-day-a-week routine.

  • Set Reminders: Put workouts and meal prep in your calendar, just like you would for work or social events. Treat them as appointments with yourself that you can’t miss.

  • Get a Buddy: Accountability is powerful. Find a friend, coworker, or family member who can encourage you to stay on track.

  • Celebrate Small Wins: Lost a pound? Made it through an entire week without skipping a workout? Give yourself some credit! Recognizing progress, even the small stuff, keeps you motivated.

  • Forgive Yourself for Slip-Ups: Consistency isn’t about being perfect—it’s about getting back on track when life happens. A missed workout or a big meal doesn’t mean it’s over; it just means you get back to it the next day.


The Bottom Line

If you’ve been wondering why weight loss has felt impossible, ask yourself how consistent you’ve been. It’s not about grand gestures or Herculean workouts; it’s about those little, steady actions that add up over time. So don’t be discouraged if it feels slow—just keep showing up, day after day, workout after workout, meal after meal. Consistency is your not-so-secret weapon. Use it well, and before long, you’ll be exactly where you want to be.

Now, go be consistent—your future self will thank you.


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